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	<title>Comments on: How SecondSecrets Fed Your Inner Desires</title>
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		<title>By: Mabb Dilweg</title>
		<link>http://blog.pradprathivi.com/2009/10/18/how-secondsecrets-fed-your-inner-desires/comment-page-1/#comment-4289</link>
		<dc:creator>Mabb Dilweg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Oct 2009 03:09:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I removed it from my timeline about a week after it started because there were far too many plurks about shit I had no interest in. I think it was amusing for abotu two days, then Mad stopped making plurks for it :) Does *anyone* have time to keep up with it ?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I removed it from my timeline about a week after it started because there were far too many plurks about shit I had no interest in. I think it was amusing for abotu two days, then Mad stopped making plurks for it <img src='http://blog.pradprathivi.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  Does *anyone* have time to keep up with it ?</p>
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		<title>By: Lizzie Lexington</title>
		<link>http://blog.pradprathivi.com/2009/10/18/how-secondsecrets-fed-your-inner-desires/comment-page-1/#comment-4252</link>
		<dc:creator>Lizzie Lexington</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 21:33:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I followed SecondSecrets for a bit but removed it over the weekend.  I don&#039;t have an issue with someone expressing something constructive anonymously but I do have issues with using anonymity as a tool of hate.  Plus it was clogging up my time line and distracting me from my other plurk buddies, LOL.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I followed SecondSecrets for a bit but removed it over the weekend.  I don&#8217;t have an issue with someone expressing something constructive anonymously but I do have issues with using anonymity as a tool of hate.  Plus it was clogging up my time line and distracting me from my other plurk buddies, LOL.</p>
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		<title>By: Kenji Roxley</title>
		<link>http://blog.pradprathivi.com/2009/10/18/how-secondsecrets-fed-your-inner-desires/comment-page-1/#comment-4244</link>
		<dc:creator>Kenji Roxley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 00:18:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>My primary avatar became a Pseudonym without me even realizing or wanting it to. When I first began second life, I felt very detached from it and though I didn&#039;t go around trolling with it I was definitely more open with people than I am in real life. I&#039;m painfully shy. And as I grew more attached to my online identity the extreme self consciousness and anxiety that I feel in real life became a problem in sl too. I didn&#039;t talk to anyone, even though I really wanted to.

So I created an alt, one that I don&#039;t associate so much with &quot;me&quot; and who I can speak and comment as. I wouldn&#039;t blame people for thinking I&#039;m a coward but it&#039;s much better than living in silence. I would never even consider an online relationship. I have one in real life and if I had one in sl I would feel as if I were betraying that rl one. It&#039;s just how I feel and not how I expect others to.

The problem I had with the SecondSecrets was that it seemed to be about other people more than about the person posting. It was even more anonymous than having an alt and I didn&#039;t think that was possible before. I found the whole thing interesting but also very ugly. Not because of the creator&#039;s intentions for it (I don&#039;t know what they were) but the level that people took it to.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My primary avatar became a Pseudonym without me even realizing or wanting it to. When I first began second life, I felt very detached from it and though I didn&#8217;t go around trolling with it I was definitely more open with people than I am in real life. I&#8217;m painfully shy. And as I grew more attached to my online identity the extreme self consciousness and anxiety that I feel in real life became a problem in sl too. I didn&#8217;t talk to anyone, even though I really wanted to.</p>
<p>So I created an alt, one that I don&#8217;t associate so much with &#8220;me&#8221; and who I can speak and comment as. I wouldn&#8217;t blame people for thinking I&#8217;m a coward but it&#8217;s much better than living in silence. I would never even consider an online relationship. I have one in real life and if I had one in sl I would feel as if I were betraying that rl one. It&#8217;s just how I feel and not how I expect others to.</p>
<p>The problem I had with the SecondSecrets was that it seemed to be about other people more than about the person posting. It was even more anonymous than having an alt and I didn&#8217;t think that was possible before. I found the whole thing interesting but also very ugly. Not because of the creator&#8217;s intentions for it (I don&#8217;t know what they were) but the level that people took it to.</p>
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		<title>By: Adric Antfarm</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adric Antfarm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2009 00:13:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey, long time reader, first time commenter.

Love you work, great post.

Had not heard of this since I lowered Plurk&#039;s karma level down in retaliation for them doing it to me, but I did look at it.  It seems to be ramping up as people hear and the temptation to top others as well.   While this account holder claims not to keep logs, has Plurk itself made this pledge?  If not, went someone does cross the line and the topic gets an order for the logs, Prad will know who said his site smells like cheese and depending upon the type of cheese he could do anything (Limburger for example would be the worse possible).

This is nothing like a blog in that bloggers are held accountable and act accordingly.  Absent that, I don&#039;t know if we can trust the offer of a stranger to be the editor.  The editor who in posting would take the fall actually.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey, long time reader, first time commenter.</p>
<p>Love you work, great post.</p>
<p>Had not heard of this since I lowered Plurk&#8217;s karma level down in retaliation for them doing it to me, but I did look at it.  It seems to be ramping up as people hear and the temptation to top others as well.   While this account holder claims not to keep logs, has Plurk itself made this pledge?  If not, went someone does cross the line and the topic gets an order for the logs, Prad will know who said his site smells like cheese and depending upon the type of cheese he could do anything (Limburger for example would be the worse possible).</p>
<p>This is nothing like a blog in that bloggers are held accountable and act accordingly.  Absent that, I don&#8217;t know if we can trust the offer of a stranger to be the editor.  The editor who in posting would take the fall actually.</p>
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		<title>By: SecondLie Scribe</title>
		<link>http://blog.pradprathivi.com/2009/10/18/how-secondsecrets-fed-your-inner-desires/comment-page-1/#comment-4242</link>
		<dc:creator>SecondLie Scribe</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 16:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Quit stealing my private photos!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quit stealing my private photos!</p>
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